“I am in love with Paula Sager’s questions: Can you be present enough for this? And this? What supports you in being present? How do we say goodbye to those who are leaving our known world? How do we stay connected to those who leave? This thoughtful memoir invites us to bring such wonderment into our own bodies, to be curious about our own relationships with our beloveds, with time, with mortality. It is not easy to be wrestled by unanswerable questions, but as Paula’s father would say, “That’s the beauty of it.” And this is a beautiful telling, a sacred endeavor exploring the thresholds of birth and death, what comes before, what comes after, and that most difficult and most glorious betweenness we call now.”
— Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, author of The Unfolding and host of The Poetic Path
“In this luminous meditation on the death of a beloved parent, Paula Sager gracefully dances between embodiment and contemplation, between heartbreak and gratitude, between memory and presence. Her vivid depictions of lives being fully lived, from kayaking the Atlantic waters to shopping for a watch in a suburban mall, make this book sing, and render her father’s dying a holy, holy thing.”
— Mirabai Starr, Author of Wild Mercy and Ordinary Mysticism
“The Watch is a deep and personal inquiry into grief, love, and the nature of consciousness. Paula Sager’s intimate narrative evokes the wise presence of her late father in ways that feel like a real encounter, bringing the reader into close contact with the mystery of relationship. As the interplay of life and death unfolds, we receive glimpses of timelessness and encounter the numinous. This is a beautiful, spacious and evocative read. A celebration of the fullness of life, where everyday details become portals to universal questions.”
— Anne Egseth, author This is All He Asks of You
“Paula Sager writes that finding a book feels like being found. The Watch will find all of us who contemplate the passage of time and the persistence of love for those present and not. This beautiful book doesn’t give us the answers, but instead offers us enormous consolation in the gifts of our own insight and wonder.”
— Hester Kaplan, author of The Edge of Marriage, and winner of the Flannery O’Connor Award for Short Fiction
“The Watch: Time to Witness the Beauty of It All by Paula Sager is an extraordinary and heartfelt account of the author’s relationship with her dying father, and what she learned about herself during the final year of his life. Drawing on years of practice in the Discipline of Authentic Movement, Sager takes the reader on a deep dive into the mysteries of memory and intuition, exploring what it means to be human, and what it means to love another. Beautifully written and deeply wise, this is a story we can all learn from.”
— Elizabeth Shick, author of The Golden Land, winner of the AWP Prize for the Novel
“While offering glimpses into her deeply personal experiences with loss, grief and growth, Paula Sager gives readers the space and inspiration to reflect upon their own mysterious relationship to time and to their loved ones. You will be comforted and moved by Paula’s open-hearted revelations large and small.”
— Priscilla Warner, New York Times bestselling author of The Faith Club and Learning to Breathe
